Gary Chapman is the pioneer of the five love languages. He posits that there are five ways that people speak and understand love. In most couples, the individuals usually have a different primary emotional love language. When this happens, the messages of love does not translate. Hence, it is common to hear someone say, "I tell him how much I love him all the time, but he never says it back to me," and the other says, "I work so hard for this family and provide. I don't d